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Q: My boyfriend and i have 5years and 7months together ,,he cheated on me several times i forgave him because i love him,,we decided to move together but i never forget what he did to me,, i respect him i never cheat on him because of him i don’t have friends, every people that want to be my friends i take myself away from them the problem is when i keep thinking about what he’ve done to me, i get mad and we keep arguing all the time,,today me and him had a fight i told him i’m going to leave the house because i don’t want to be with him no more it’s time for me to move on we have 5 years and 7 months together we don’t do nothing good only fighting he don’t aks me to marry him or anything i think he’s using me he pushed me to the room he forced me to have sex with him he spilled inside of me he never did that before i don’t know why he did that for ,, but i wish to not have kids with him and i really want to move on, he told me i can’t leave him , Do you think i can get pregnant by him? please say no because i really don’t want to have his baby

First of all, no one has the right to force anyone to have sex. That is called rape, regardless of whether or not you are in a relationship with that person. You have every right to press charges. If you wish to do so, you can contact the local police or your local women’s shelter who will provide you with an advocate to help you through this difficult time (both emotionally and legally).

Secondly, it sounds as if you have been abused for a while now – maybe not physically, but emotionally. Abusers often try to isolate their victims by cutting them off from friends and family. I think you have made a good decision to leave. Whether or not you decide to press charges for the sexual assault, I would recommend that you contact your local domestic violence agency for support. Their services are free and they can provide you with a safe place to stay if you don’t have anywhere else to go. To find the

If it has been less than five days since the unwanted sexual incident occurred, you…

I took a few birth control pills late is that going to delay my period?

Taking pills late should not delay your period. However, it may cause your period to be earlier than usual. You may also experience some irregular spotting or bleeding due to this.

i know my girlfriend allowed her previous partners to ejaculate inside her and she doesn’t get pregnant. Since I’ve known her, her belly inflates every now and then and she bleed from her vagina daily. She has seen doctors and she states that they don’t know what the problem is. She says her ovaries burn when her stomach puffs out and when she bleeds. I want to know if it can be a result of too much different sperms she allowed in her body.

When semen is ejaculated into the vagina, it does not “stay” in there. The majority of the semen, along with vaginal fluids, leaks out. The vagina is like a tube that leads up to the uterus. The uterus (where a pregnancy grows) connects to the fallopian tubes (where conception occurs). Although the fallopian tubes and ovaries are not directly connected, it is not possible for sperm to leak into the abdominal cavity.

The symptoms your partner is having are not normal. Be sure that she has had screening  tests for sexually transmitted infections, which should include chlamydia, gonorrhea, HIV and syphilis. A recent pap test to screen for cervical cancer, and a pelvic exam and ultrasound to rule out ovarian cysts and ovarian cancer would be other testing for her to consider. It is importnat for your partner to continue to follow up with her doctor-or other doctors if necessary- until she finds answers.

I had sex with my girlfriend a week or so before her period was suppose to happen. we had sex again bit both times i used a condom and the second time i didnt ejaculate. she has missed her period now for a week and ahalf i had her take two pregnancy tests one day apart from each other and both came out negative. just yesterday she said she had spotting for about 30 minutes to less than an hour. is she pregnant? please help!

Yes, pregnancy is a possibility. I suggest waiting another week or two, then repeat the pregnancy test.

Ok so i have been taking birth control to get my period regular, id miss one day take it later on the next day and i havent been taking it at the same time everyday, me and my husband had sex tues and wed. and i forgot to take a pill on tues. and took is after we had sex agian on wed. is there any chance that we could get pregnant? I have been having thick clear muscus discharge which i read was happens wheny your most fertile, could i be pregnant? or get pregnant?

If you are not taking your pills correctly & consistently, then you cannot rely on them to provide you with effective birth control. Yes, there is the risk of pregnancy.

During ovulation, vaginal discharge is usually clear, thin, watery, and increased in amount. Closer to menstruation time, vaginal discharge becomes thicker, creamier and white in color.

my period is two days late than my longest period and four days later than my norm. I have a pretty regular period and havent gotten it yet. I have been having sex with my boyfriend, we ALWAYS use a condom and pull out before he ejaculates. And we ALWAYS check the condoms, none of which were damaged. I am terrified i could be pregnant…I know its “unlikely” but i dont feel my period coming so im just worried.

Condoms, when used correctly & consistently, are very effective at preventing pregnancy. It is unlikely that you have become pregnant. If your period still has not occurred, do a pregnancy test. It will give you some peace of mind.

Keep in mind that several things can alter your menstrual cycle.  Stress, illness, hormonal fluctuations, and changes in diet, exercise or sleep patterns can cause changes in your periods. Periods may come earlier, later, or sometimes, not at all. It may be lighter or heavier.

If your pregnancy test is negative, but your period is still MIA, follow up with your doctor to discuss this.

I had unprotected sex w/an ex, he had been drinking and duing coke. We were both very aroused but inside of me he said he wpould go soft n pul out til hard and go inside at tmes he would go soft but continue. The whole time I could feel him finally he started pumping harder and faster and spanking me then he stopped and I was very lubricated. I know I didnt cum he said that he cpuldnt cumbut he oulled out and passed out. Could he nave came

Yes, he could have ejaculated inside of you without knowing.

i was fertail and i had unprotected sex we used the pull out method and i was overlating the nextday what is thiere a chance of becoming pregant?

There is a high risk of pregnancy when intercourse occurs just before ovulation. However, you may have reduced your risk if the pull out method was used correctly.

Withdrawal or the pull out method is not considered a very reliable method of birth control.  However, it is more effective when it is done correctly.   Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, four will become pregnant each year if the method is done perfectly.  Of every 100 women whose partners use withdrawal, 27 will become pregnant if withdrawal is not always performed correctly.  

Couples who have great self-control, experience, and trust tend to use the pull out method more effectively. The male partner must be able to know exactly when ejaculation is coming and must be able to pull out before any semen is deposited in the vagina.  Generally, younger or less experienced men have a more difficult time predicting the time of ejaculation and have more difficulty pulling out in time. 

However, even if a man pulls out in time, pregnancy is still possible because of pre-seminal fluid (also called pre-ejaculate).  Pre-seminal fluid leaks out…

If I had unprotected sex with a guy and had my period the next day or a couple of days after, then had unprotected sex with another guy a week after my period. Who is most likely the father?

The timing of conception depends on the date of your last menstrual period. The only way to identify the correct man is to have a paternity test in the future.

hello i was diagnosed with chlamydia me and the partner took antibiotics at the same time but had sex four days later i got my period this month now its gone but i’m spotting here and there and we had sex last night what is wrong

You may have a vaginal infection or you are just having some irregular spotting. If the spotting persists, schedule an appointment with your doctor for an infection check.