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my boyfriend and i had sex last night with a condom and he didnt ejaculate in me but now im having a vaginal discharge am i pregnant?

As long as there was no penis-vagina contact without a condom and as long as the condom did not break or come off inside of you, pregnancy is highly unlikely.

Most vaginal discharge is normal. Normal discharge should have a slight odor and should never cause itching or burning. However, if your discharge causes itching or burning, has a strong or fishy odor, is an abnormal color (such as brown, gray, or green), or has a strange texture (frothy, foamy, or lumpy), you may have a vaginal infection. Not all vaginal infections are sexually transmitted. Two common infections that occur among women are bacterial vaginosis (BV – an overgrowth of bacteria in the vagina)  and candidiasis (yeast).  Medication is usually needed to get rid of the symptoms.

If your discharge appears to be abnormal, please contact one of our offices for an infection check appointment. If you do not live nearby, contact your regular medical provider or locate the closest family planning or Planned Parenthood clinic.

Im going to start by saying by saying i had my period on the first of January lasted bout 4 days. I jad unprotected sex on the 8th and 11th where he came in me both time.we had sex again on the 18 and 21 and he came in me both times.What are my chances of being pregnant? We trying to concieve and im 25years old

Unfortunately, I am unable to give you a percentage regarding your chance of pregnancy. There are a lot of variables when it comes to conceiving. Some of these factors include your age, your weight, and how long you have been trying to get pregnant.

As long as you are normally fertile and your partner has a normal sperm count, you have a 15-25% chance of becoming pregnant each ovulatory cycle.  However, a woman’s ability to conceive decreases after age 30. About 40% of couples attempting pregnancy will become pregnant within the first three months, 70% within the first six months, and 85% within the year.

Your best chance to get pregnant is if you make love regularly, two to three times a week, every week, every month, and once every day during your 6 fertile days (day of ovulation and the 5 preceding days). Generally, the healthier you are, the better your chance of achieving pregnancy and having a healthy baby. Here are some tips:

Maintain a healthy weight. If you are underweight, you may not ovulate regularly. If you are overweight or obese, you may…

I took the morning after pill last month and got my period that month as well. this month , I found a good amount of blood on my unwearable and though I was getting my period. but it was gone and it’s like I don’t have it anymore. is this normal? I’m 16 , does the pill affect girls of younger ages more differently?

Plan B (the morning after pill) causes the same side effects in women of all ages. Some of the most common side effects are nausea, abdominal pain, fatigue, headache, menstrual changes, dizziness, and breast tenderness. Usually, Plan B brings on some unexpected bleeding that is similar to a regular period. However, it usually goes away by the time of your next period which may be heavier or lighter than usual.  Your next period may also come earlier or later than is normal for you. It doesn’t normally affect a second period. Is it possible that the first period you experienced was simply some unexpected bleeding caused by your Plan B use? If that is the case, I wouldn’t worry. However, if that was not the case, you may want to contact your medical care provider and explain your situation to him or her.

can I get pregnant if he was not hard and we had intercourse for a minute?

Pregnancy is unlikely with a flaccid penis because the presence of pre-ejaculatory fluid is less likely. However, if he is sexually excited and was recently erect, pre-ejaculatory fluid may be present inside the tip of the penis and may leak out. It is much safer to use condoms for any penis-vagina contact. Free condoms are available at all of our offices. If you are interested in starting a hormonal method of birth control, contact one of our offices for an appointment.

is it sex if he inserts his penis into your vagina but he was not hard?

Yes.

I had unprotected sex and didn’t pull out so I took the day after pill the next day…Then I started my birth control a weeks after that. I’m 4 pills away from where I’m supposed to get my period and still haven’t got it… Will my period cycle change since I started the pills a little after my last period? I’m about 2 weeks late from when I got my period before the pills…

Yes, your period cycle will change since you started the pill. If your pill pack consists of 28 pills (21 hormone pills and seven placebo pills), you can expect your period to start on your third or fourth placebo pill day. However, since you just started your pills, your body has to get used to the new hormone levels. During the first few months of pill use, menstrual irregularities are common. You may have some bleeding or spotting in between periods and you may even skip a period. You can expect less bleeding and fewer days of bleeding with your periods now that you’re on the pill. Continue to take your pills at the same time everyday. If you miss two periods in a row, take a pregnancy test.

I am on the Birth control implanon and I had sex 2 weeks ago and the condom broke so I took Plan B one step 6 hours later. I have spot bled but still not had a period but I usually do not have one because of my birth control.

If the sexual intercourse occurred during the first seven days after your Implanon insertion, Plan B use would have been recommended. Since you used the morning after pill within 24 hours of the condom breaking, you would have received its maximum protective effects. However, if the sex occurred more than seven days after having Implanon inserted, Plan B was not necessary. Implanon is extremely effective and provides continual protection against pregnancy for three years after insertion. Less than one woman out of 100 becomes pregnant during the first year of use. Condoms should be used in addition to Implanon during the first week. 

Menstrual irregularities are very common with both Implanon use and Plan B use. The spotting you are experiencing is normal. However, if you are concerned about pregnancy, wait 4-5 weeks and then take a preganncy test.

Can you be pregnant if you have sex(with condoms every time, only put it in for a second before intercoarse then put on a condom) but no ones ever cum inside you, you still have your period, and you’ve never taken birth control?

Pregnancy is unlikely in the scenario you described. However, whenever the uncovered penis is inserted into the vagina, pre-ejaculatory fluid can leak out of the penis. This fluid may or may not contain sperm. If it does contain sperm, pregnancy is possible. The fluid is much less likely to contain sperm if he urinates before having sex. It would be safer to use the condom from the very beginning. As long as you are having normal periods though, pregnancy is extremely unlikely.

If you are interested in using a longer term method of birth control (like the pill or the shot), please contact one of our offices for an appointment.

my period is 2 weeks late this month and i dont know why, what could it be?

If you’ve had sexual intercourse, pregnancy is a possibility. However, late periods can be caused by a number of different things including illness, medication use, a change in diet, increased stress, a change in schedules, and/or weight gain or loss. If you are nearing menopause, you may be in perimenopause which causes menstrual irregularities. Late or skipped periods are also possible when starting a new method of hormonal birth control.

If pregnancy is possible, take a pregnancy test. If you have not been sexually active and none of the above applies to you, contact your medical care provider. He or she may want to run some tests.

I haven’t missed any of my birth control pills but, yesterday I took one from the wrong day, and today it appeared that I had missed yesterday, so I two I accidently took two in 1 day on accident, and now I don’t have on for the day I need, what do I do?

You should be fine. To be on the safe side, you may want to use condoms in addition to the pill for the next 1-2 weeks. Keep taking your pills though. Get back on track and continue to take them daily around the same time each day. You may experience some bleeding or spotting in between your periods. This is normal whenever you miss pills, take them late, or in your case, take them early.

If you have any further questions, contact the medical provider who prescribed your pills.