Anytime you have unprotected intercourse, there is the risk of pregnancy. Condoms can be very effective at preventing pregnacy when used correctly and consistently. Condoms should be placed on the penis when it is erect (hard) and prior to entering into the vagina. Prior to ejaculation, many men leak a small amount of pre-ejaculatory fluid (pre-cum). This fluid can contain sperm, which can result in pregnancy. Therefore, it is possible to become pregnant even if your partner does not “come” inside of you (without a condom).
After first intercourse, some women may have a little spotting or brownish discharge. If there is no foul odor, then i’ts probably nothing of concern. If you find you are still tight, a safer way of relaxing the vagina would be to use your fingers or his fingers, lubricated with saliva or a vaginal lubricant. This could be done as part of foreplay.
Continue using condoms correctly and consistently. You may want to consider beginning a long term method of birth control like the pills, patch, shot, etc.
If your next period is more than 1 week late, do a pregnancy test, either at home or in a clinic. Family Planning clinics offer pregnancy tests, gynecological exams and birth control at little to no cost, depending on household size & income.
22. January 2012
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